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بِسْمِ ٱللَّٰهِ ٱلرَّحْمَٰنِ ٱلرَّحِيمِ

In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful

Sunnah-e-Rasool (ﷺ) • Shariat-e-Islamiya • Gharelu Zindagi

Islamic Nikah, Miya-Biwi Ke Huqooq & Deeni Taleem

Nikah ki barkat, shauhar aur biwi ke aapas ke huqooq, rishta khushgawar rakhne ke Sunnah usool, aur authentic Ahadees ka mukammal majmooa.

Deeni Taleem & Sunnah Rahnumai

Miya-Biwi Ke Aapas Ke Huqooq & Zindagi

Islam ne shauhar aur biwi dono ko unke sharei huqooq aur zimmedariyan di hain taaki ghar sukoon aur barkat ka gehwara bane.

Biwi Ke Huqooq (Shauhar Par Farz)

Rights of Wife upon Husband
Naan-o-Nafqa (Khorak, Libas & Rehaish)

Shauhar par farz hai ki wo apni hasiyat ke mutabiq biwi ke khane-peene, libas aur mehfooz rehaish ka intezam kare.

Husn-e-Sulook & Izzat

Rasoolullah (ﷺ) ne farmaya: 'Tum me behtar wo hai jo apni biwi ke sath behtar ho.' Biwi par zulm, daant-dapat ya bad-zubani sakht mamnoo hai.

Deeni Taleem & Rahnumai

Biwi ko namaz, roza, quran aur shariat ke ahkaam sikhana aur Deen par chalne me madad karna shauhar ki zimmedari hai.

Dil-jooi & Khushdili

Biwi ke sath hansi-mazaaq karna, unki baat tawajjoh se sunna, aur unki thakaan ka ehsaas karna Sunnah-e-Nabawi hai.

Nabi Kareem (ﷺ) ne farmaya: “Tum me se behtareen wo hai jo apni biwi ke sath behtar ho.”

Shauhar Ke Huqooq (Biwi Par Zimmedari)

Rights of Husband upon Wife
Izzat & Deen ke Dayre me Itaat

Shauhar ghar ka sarparast hai. Biwi par shauhar ka haq hai ki wo unki izzat kare aur shariat ke dayre me unki baat maane.

Amanatdari & Maal ki Hifazat

Shauhar ki ghair-maujoodgi me unke ghar, maal aur apni paarsaai (chastity) ki hifazat karna biwi ki ahem zimmedari hai.

Shauhar ke Walidain ka Adab

Shauhar ke walidain aur ahl-e-khana ka ehtiram karna ghar me mohabbat aur sukoon paida karta hai.

Ghar me Sukoon & Khush-Gawari

Jab shauhar thak kar ghar aaye to muskura kar receives karna aur ghar ke mahol ko pur-sukoon banana.

Nabi Kareem (ﷺ) ne farmaya: “Jo aurat is haal me wafaat paaye ke shauhar usse raazi ho, wo Jannat me daakhil hogi.”

Rishta Kaise Achcha Aur Khushgawar Banayein? (6 Golden Sunnah Usool)

Shauhar-biwi ke aapas me mohabbat, narmi aur ittehad barqarar rakhne ke amli nuskhe.

01

Meethi Zubaan & Narmi

Kabhi bhi gusse me baat na karein. Narmi aisi cheez hai jo dushmani ko bhi dosti me badal deti hai, to shauhar-biwi me kitni mohabbat layegi!

02

Ghalatiyon Par Darguzar (Maaf Karna)

Insaan se ghalati hoti hai. Nabi Kareem (ﷺ) ne farmaya ki agar biwi ki koi ek baat napasand ho to doosri aadat pasand aayegi. Aibon par parda daalein.

03

Choti-Choti Khushiyan & Tohfe

Bila-wajah aapas me phool, koi choti cheez, ya pasandeeda khana tohfe me dein. 'Tehadaw Tahabbu' - tohfe mohabbat badhate hain.

04

Ghar Me Ba-Jamaat Ibadat & Dua

Miya-biwi sath namaz padhein, Quran ki tilawat karein aur aapas me dua karein. Jis ghar me Allah ka zikr hota hai wahan farishte aate hain aur shaitan bhaag jata hai.

05

Teesre Shakhs Ko Beech Me Na Layein

Apne aapas ke maamlaat chaar-deewari ke andar pyar se hal karein. Baat bahar le jane se masaail badhte hain.

06

Ek Dusre Ki Taareef & Shukr-Guzari

Shauhar biwi ke banaye khane aur mehnat ki taareef kare, aur biwi shauhar ki koshishon ka shukriya ada kare. 'Jo logon ka shukr ada nahi karta wo Allah ka shukr ada nahi karta.'

Jis Ghar Jayegi Uske Liye

Sasural & Naye Ghar Me Mohabbat
Naye Ghar Me Salam & Barkat Ka Dakhila

Ghar dakhil hote waqt muskura kar Salam karein; Sunnah ke mutabiq yeh naye ghar me barkat aur farishton ki aamad ka sabab hai.

Saas, Sasur & Buzurgon Ka Walidain Ki Tarah Adab

Shauhar ke walidain ko apne waldain ki tarah izzat aur adab dein. Buzurgon ki duaayein naye ghar ko aabaad aur pur-sukoon banati hain.

Narmi, Sabr & Meethi Guftagu

Naye mahol me dhalne ke liye shuruat me sabr aur narmi ikhtiyar karein. Meethi zubaan dilon ko jeet leti hai.

Amanatdari & Ghar Ki Izzat Ki Hifazat

Naye ghar ke bhed, aapas ki baatein, aur shauhar ke maamlaat ko bahar aam na hone dein; parda aur haya barqarar rakhein.

Nabi Kareem (ﷺ): “Jab apne ghar dakhil ho to Salam karo, yeh barkat ka sabab hoga.”

Apne Bachon Ke Sath

Aulaad Ki Mohabbat, Adal & Deen
Mohabbat & Shafqat (Mercy & Love)

Nabi (ﷺ) ne farmaya: 'Jo choton par rahm nahi karta wo hum me se nahi.' Bachon ko daant-dapat ki jagah pyar aur tawajjoh dein.

Aulaad Ke Darmiyan Adal & Barabari

Bete aur beti ke darmiyan koi farq ya be-insaafi na karein; dono ko barabar pyar, taleem aur huqooq dein.

Pehle Din Se Namaz & Deeni Taleem

Bachon ke samne khud ba-jamaat namaz padhein aur unhe Sunnah adab, sach bolna, aur waldain ki itaat sikhayein.

Behtareen Ikhlaaq Ka Amali Namoona

Bacha wahi seekhta hai jo wo ghar me dekhta hai. Ghar me jhagde aur gaali-galoch se bachein taaki aulaad naik bane.

Nabi Kareem (ﷺ): “Jo choton par rahm aur shafqat nahi karta, us par rahm nahi kiya jata.”

Apas Me Rishte & Sila-Rahmi

Khandan & Rishton Ki Hifazat
Rizq & Umr Me Barkat Ka Zariya

Sahih Hadith ke mutabiq rishtedaron ke sath sila-rahmi karne se Allah rozi me barkat aur umr me kushadgi ata farmata hai.

Gile-Shikwe Bhula Kar Rishta Jodna

Asal ba-kamal shakhs wo hai jo us rishtedar se bhi rishta jode jo usse kat taalluqi karta ho ya doori banata ho.

Muskura Kar Milna & Khush-Kalami

Apne bhai, bhabhi, chacha, mamu aur qareebi rishtedaron se khanda-peshani (khushdili) se milein; muskurana bhi sadqah hai.

Musibat & Khushi Me Sath Dena

Rishtedar ki takleef me uski madad karein aur khushi ke mawaqe (nikah, aqiqa) par khushdili se shirkat karein.

Nabi Kareem (ﷺ): “Sila-rahmi karne wale ke rizq aur umr me Allah barkat ataa farmata hai.”
Mubarak Ahadees Collection

Authentic Ahadees on Nikah & Conjugal Harmony

Bukhari, Muslim, Tirmidhi, Abu Dawud aur Ibn Majah ki sahih ahadees ka sanad-yafta majmooa.

Importance of Nikah (Sunnah)💍 Nikah
Sunan Ibn Majah 1846 (Sahih)

“النِّكَاحُ مِنْ سُنَّتِي، فَمَنْ لَمْ يَعْمَلْ بِسُنَّتِي فَلَيْسَ مِنِّي”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Nikah meri Sunnah me se hai, aur jo meri Sunnah par amal na kare wo mujh me se nahi hai.”

English: “Marriage is part of my Sunnah, and whoever does not follow my Sunnah has nothing to do with me.”

Simplicity in Marriage & Dowry-Free Nikah💍 Nikah
Musnad Ahmad 24595 (Hasan)

“أَعْظَمُ النِّكَاحِ بَرَكَةً أَيْسَرُهُ مَئُونَةً”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Sabse zyada barkat wala Nikah wo hai jisme kharcha aur bojh sabse kam ho.”

English: “The most blessed marriage is that which involves the least burden and expenses.”

Selection of Righteous Partner (Deen & Akhlaaq)💍 Nikah
Jami at-Tirmidhi 1084 (Hasan)

“إِذَا أَتَاكُمْ مَنْ تَرْضَوْنَ دِينَهُ وَخُلُقَهُ فَزَوِّجُوهُ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Jab tumhare paas koi aisa rishta aaye jiske Deen aur Ikhlaaq se tum raazi ho, to unka Nikah kara do.”

English: “When someone whose religious commitment and character you are pleased with proposes to you, then marry (your daughter/ward) to him.”

Prioritizing Piety over Worldly Wealth💍 Nikah
Sahih al-Bukhari 5090, Sahih Muslim 1466

“تُنْكَحُ الْمَرْأَةُ لأَرْبَعٍ: لِمَالِهَا وَلِحَسَبِهَا وَجَمَالِهَا وَلِدِينِهَا، فَاظْفَرْ بِذَاتِ الدِّينِ تَرِبَتْ يَدَاكَ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Aurat se 4 cheezon ki wajah se Nikah kiya jata hai: Maal, Khandan, Khoobsurti aur Deen. Pas tum Deendar aurat ko chuno, kamyabi paoge.”

English: “A woman is married for four things: her wealth, her lineage, her beauty, and her piety. So seek the woman with religious piety, and you will prosper.”

The Mandatory Role of Wali in Islamic Nikah💍 Nikah
Sunan Abi Dawud 2085, Jami at-Tirmidhi 1101 (Sahih)

“لاَ نِكَاحَ إِلاَّ بِوَلِيٍّ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Wali (Sarparast) ki raza-mandi aur maujoodgi ke baghair koi Nikah nahi hota.”

English: “There is no valid marriage without the consent and involvement of the Wali (Guardian).”

Completion of Half of Deen💍 Nikah
Shu'ab al-Iman al-Bayhaqi 5100 (Hasan)

“إِذَا تَزَوَّجَ الْعَبْدُ فَقَدِ اسْتَكْمَلَ نِصْفَ الدِّينِ، فَلْيَتَّقِ اللَّهَ فِي النِّصْفِ الْبَاقِي”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Jab banda Nikah kar leta hai to uska aadha Deen mukammal ho jata hai, bas baaqi aadhe me Allah se dare.”

English: “When a person marries, they have fulfilled half of their religion, so let them fear Allah regarding the remaining half.”

Biwi ke Huqooq (Food, Clothing & Dignity)⚖️ Huqooq
Sunan Abi Dawud 2142, Musnad Ahmad (Sahih)

“أَنْ تُطْعِمَهَا إِذَا طَعِمْتَ، وَتَكْسُوَهَا إِذَا اكْتَسَيْتَ، وَلاَ تَضْرِبِ الْوَجْهَ، وَلاَ تُقَبِّحْ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Shauhar par biwi ka haq hai ki jab khud khao to use khilao, jab khud pehno to use pehnao, uske chehre par na maaro, aur use bura bhala ya taana na do.”

English: “The right of your wife over you is that you feed her when you eat, clothe her when you clothe yourself, never strike her face, and never insult her.”

Shauhar ki Raza-mandi aur Jannat ki Basharat⚖️ Huqooq
Jami at-Tirmidhi 1161, Sunan Ibn Majah 1854 (Hasan)

“أَيُّمَا امْرَأَةٍ مَاتَتْ وَزَوْجُهَا عَنْهَا رَاضٍ دَخَلَتِ الْجَنَّةَ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Jo aurat is haal me dunya se rukhsat ho ki uska shauhar usse raazi aur khush ho, to wo Jannat me daakhil hogi.”

English: “Any woman who dies while her husband is pleased with her will enter Paradise.”

Ghar me Dono ki Sharei Zimmedariyan⚖️ Huqooq
Sahih al-Bukhari 893, Sahih Muslim 1829

“وَالرَّجُلُ رَاعٍ فِي أَهْلِهِ وَهُوَ مَسْئُولٌ عَنْ رَعِيَّتِهِ، وَالْمَرْأَةُ رَاعِيَةٌ فِي بَيْتِ زَوْجِهَا وَمَسْئُولَةٌ عَنْ رَعِيَّتِهَا”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Mard apne ghar walon ka sarparast hai aur usse uski zimmedari ki baabat pucha jayega; aur aurat apne shauhar ke ghar ki nigran hai aur usse uski amanat ki baabat pucha jayega.”

English: “A man is a guardian over his family and is responsible for them, and a woman is a guardian over her husband's home and is responsible for it.”

Biwi Allah ki Amanat Hai (Khutbah Hajjat-ul-Wida)⚖️ Huqooq
Sahih Muslim 1218 (Khutbah Hajjat-ul-Wida)

“فَاتَّقُوا اللَّهَ فِي النِّسَاءِ، فَإِنَّكُمْ أَخَذْتُمُوهُنَّ بِأَمَانِ اللَّهِ، وَاسْتَحْلَلْتُمْ فُرُوجَهُنَّ بِكَلِمَةِ اللَّهِ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Auraton ke maamle me Allah se daro! Kyunki tumne unhe Allah ki amanat ke sath nikah me liya hai aur Allah ke kalime se unhe halaal kiya hai.”

English: “Fear Allah concerning women! For verily you have taken them as a trust from Allah, and their intimacy has been made lawful to you by the word of Allah.”

Biwi ke Sath Husn-e-Sulook & Behtareen Ikhlaaq💖 Mohabbat
Jami at-Tirmidhi 3895 (Sahih)

“خَيْرُكُمْ خَيْرُكُمْ لأَهْلِهِ، وَأَنَا خَيْرُكُمْ لأَهْلِي”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Tum me se sabse behtareen shakhs wo hai jo apne ahl-o-ayaal (biwi aur gharwalon) ke sath sabse behtar ho, aur main apne ghar walon ke sath sabse behtar hoon.”

English: “The best of you is the one who is best to his family/wife, and I am the best among you to my family.”

Aapas Me Mohabbat Par Allah ki Rehmat💖 Mohabbat
Al-Jami' As-Saghir Suyuti 1977, Imam Rafi'i

“إِنَّ الرَّجُلَ إِذَا نَظَرَ إِلَى امْرَأَتِهِ وَنَظَرَتْ إِلَيْهِ، نَظَرَ اللَّهُ تَعَالَى إِلَيْهِمَا نَظْرَةَ رَحْمَةٍ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Jab shauhar apni biwi ko mohabbat ki nazar se dekhta hai aur biwi shauhar ko mohabbat se dekhti hai, to Allah Ta'ala un dono par rehmat ki nazar farmata hai.”

English: “When a husband looks at his wife with love and she looks at him with love, Allah looks upon both of them with mercy.”

Choti-Choti Mohabbat Bhari Adaayein aur Sawab💖 Mohabbat
Sahih al-Bukhari 56, Sahih Muslim 1628

“حَتَّى اللُّقْمَةَ تَرْفَعُهَا إِلَى فِي امْرَأَتِكَ فَلَكَ فِيهَا أَجْرٌ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Hatta ke jo luqma tum (mohabbat se) apni biwi ke munh me daalte ho, us par bhi tumhe Allah ki taraf se ajar aur sadqah ka sawab milta hai.”

English: “Even the morsel of food that you lift with love to your wife's mouth will earn you a reward from Allah as charity.”

Tohfe Dena Aapas Me Mohabbat Badhata Hai💖 Mohabbat
Al-Adab Al-Mufrad Bukhari 594 (Hasan)

“تَهَادَوْا تَحَابُّوا”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Ek doosre ko tohfe (hadiya/gifts) diya karo, aapas me mohabbat aur qurbat badhegi.”

English: “Give each other gifts, and you will love one another.”

Nek Biwi Dunya Ka Sabse Bada Khazana💖 Mohabbat
Sahih Muslim 1467

“الدُّنْيَا مَتَاعٌ، وَخَيْرُ مَتَاعِ الدُّنْيَا الْمَرْأَةُ الصَّالِحَةُ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Duniya saari ki saari sarmaaya (fayde ki cheez) hai, aur is puri duniya ka sabse behtareen sarmaaya ek nek aur saleha aurat hai.”

English: “The whole world is a provision, and the best provision of this world is a righteous woman/wife.”

Aapas Me Sabr & Khoobiyon Par Nazar Rakhna🕊️ Akhlaaq
Sahih Muslim 1469

“لاَ يَفْرَكْ مُؤْمِنٌ مُؤْمِنَةً، إِنْ كَرِهَ مِنْهَا خُلُقًا رَضِيَ مِنْهَا آخَرَ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Koi momin shauhar apni momina biwi se nafrat ya bughz na kare; agar use biwi ki koi ek baat ya aadat napasand ho to doosri aadat zaroor pasand aayegi.”

English: “A believing man should not hate a believing woman (his wife). If he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another.”

Biwi ke Sath Narmi Imaan Ka Kamal Hai🕊️ Akhlaaq
Jami at-Tirmidhi 1162 (Hasan Sahih)

“أَكْمَلُ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ إِيمَانًا أَحْسَنُهُمْ خُلُقًا، وَخِيَارُكُمْ خِيَارُكُمْ لِنِسَائِهِمْ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Kamil-tareen imaan wala momin wo hai jiske ikhlaaq sabse ache hon, aur tum me se sabse behtar wo hain jo apni biwiyon ke sath sabse behtar narmi se pesh aate hain.”

English: “The most complete believer in faith is the one with the best character, and the best of you are those who are best to their wives.”

Rishte Me Narmi aur Meethi Zubaan Ka Asar🕊️ Akhlaaq
Sahih Muslim 2594

“إِنَّ الرِّفْقَ لاَ يَكُونُ فِي شَيْءٍ إِلاَّ زَانَهُ، وَلاَ يُنْزَعُ مِنْ شَيْءٍ إِلاَّ شَانَهُ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Beshak narmi jis cheez me bhi shamil hoti hai use khoobsurat bana deti hai, aur jis cheez se nikaal li jaye use aibdaar aur badnuma bana deti hai.”

English: “Verily, gentleness is not found in anything except that it beautifies it, and it is not removed from anything except that it defects it.”

Auraton ke Sath Narmi ki Khaas Wasiyat🕊️ Akhlaaq
Sahih al-Bukhari 3331, Sahih Muslim 1468

“اسْتَوْصُوا بِالنِّسَاءِ خَيْرًا”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Auraton ke sath hamesha bhalai, narmi aur husn-e-sulook ki wasiyat par qayam raho.”

English: “Treat women with kindness and gentleness.”

Nikah aur Gharelu Zindagi me Aasaani📜 Taleem
Sahih al-Bukhari 69, Sahih Muslim 1734

“يَسِّرُوا وَلاَ تُعَسِّرُوا، وَبَشِّرُوا وَلاَ تُنَفِّرُوا”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Aasaani peda karo, mushkilaat peda na karo; khushkhabri do aur logon ko mutanaffir (bezar) na karo.”

English: “Make things easy and do not make them difficult; give glad tidings and do not scare people away.”

Nikah Ki Sunnah Dua & Mubarakbaad💍 Nikah
Jami at-Tirmidhi 1091, Sunan Abi Dawud 2130 (Sahih)

“بَارَكَ اللَّهُ لَكَ، وَبَارَكَ عَلَيْكَ، وَجَمَعَ بَيْنَكُمَا فِي خَيْرٍ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Allah tumhe barkat ataa farmaye, tum par barkat naazil farmaye, aur tum dono ko khair-o-bhalai ke sath aapas me jode rakhe.”

English: “May Allah bless you, shower His blessings upon you, and join you both together in goodness.”

Rishta Dekhne Me Shari Ijazat & Ulfat💍 Nikah
Jami at-Tirmidhi 1087, Sunan Ibn Majah 1865 (Sahih)

“انْظُرْ إِلَيْهَا فَإِنَّهُ أَحْرَى أَنْ يُؤْدَمَ بَيْنَكُمَا”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Nikah se pehle rishte ko (shari dayre me) dekh lo, kyunki isse tum dono ke darmiyan aapas me mohabbat aur ulfat paida hogi.”

English: “Look at her (respectfully before marriage), for it is more likely to create affection and harmony between you.”

Nikah Me Beti Ki Raza-Mandi Ki Ahmiyat💍 Nikah
Sahih al-Bukhari 5136, Sahih Muslim 1419

“لاَ تُنْكَحُ الأَيِّمُ حَتَّى تُسْتَأْمَرَ، وَلاَ تُنْكَحُ الْبِكْرُ حَتَّى تُسْتَأْذَنَ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Beti ya aurat ka nikah unki aazaad raza-mandi aur marzi ke baghair nahi kiya ja sakta; unki ijazat lena shart hai.”

English: “A previously married woman shall not be married until she is consulted, and a virgin shall not be married until her consent is sought.”

Ghar Walon Ke Sath Gharelu Kaam Me Madad🏠 Sasural & Ghar
Sahih al-Bukhari 676

“كَانَ فِي مِهْنَةِ أَهْلِهِ، فَإِذَا حَضَرَتِ الصَّلاَةُ قَامَ إِلَى الصَّلاَةِ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Hazrat Aisha (R.A.) se pucha gaya ke Nabi (ﷺ) ghar me kya karte the? Farmaya: Aap apne ghar walon ke gharelu kaamon me haath batate the, phir jab namaz ka waqt hota to namaz ke liye tashreef le jaate.”

English: “The Prophet (ﷺ) used to serve and help his family with household chores, and when the prayer time came, he would go out to pray.”

Naye Ghar / Sasural Me Salam & Barkat Ka Dakhila🏠 Sasural & Ghar
Jami at-Tirmidhi 2698 (Hasan)

“يَا بُنَيَّ إِذَا دَخَلْتَ عَلَى أَهْلِكَ فَسَلِّمْ، يَكُونُ بَرَكَةً عَلَيْكَ وَعَلَى أَهْلِ بَيْتِكَ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Jab apne ghar ya ahl-o-ayaal ke paas dakhil ho to unhe 'Assalamu Alaikum' kaho; yeh tum par aur tumhare ghar walon par barkat ka sabab hoga.”

English: “O my child! When you enter upon your family, greet them with Salam; it will be a source of blessing for you and the people of your household.”

Badon Ka Adab & Choton Par Pyar (Sasural & Khandan)🏠 Sasural & Ghar
Jami at-Tirmidhi 1919 (Sahih)

“لَيْسَ مِنَّا مَنْ لَمْ يَرْحَمْ صَغِيرَنَا وَيَعْرِفْ شَرَفَ كَبِيرِنَا”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Wo shakhs hum me se nahi jo hamare choton par shafqat na kare aur hamare buzurgon (saas, sasur, waldain) ka adab-o-ehtiram na kare.”

English: “He is not of us who does not show mercy to our young ones and does not recognize the honor and respect due to our elders.”

Naye Ghar Me Narmi & Husn-e-Akhlaaq Ka Jaadu🏠 Sasural & Ghar
Sahih Muslim 2593

“إِنَّ اللَّهَ رَفِيقٌ يُحِبُّ الرِّفْقَ، وَيُعْطِي عَلَى الرِّفْقِ مَا لاَ يُعْطِي عَلَى الْعُنْفِ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Beshak Allah Ta'ala narm-mizaaj hai aur narmi ko pasand farmata hai; aur jo cheez narmi se haasil hoti hai wo sakhti se kabhi haasil nahi hoti.”

English: “Verily Allah is Gentle and loves gentleness. He grants upon gentleness that which He does not grant upon harshness.”

Bachon Par Shafqat & Pyar Karna Sunnah Hai👶 Bachon Ki Tarbiyat
Sahih al-Bukhari 5997, Sahih Muslim 2318

“مَنْ لاَ يَرْحَمُ لاَ يُرْحَمُ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Nabi Kareem (ﷺ) ne bachon par shafqat farmate hue farmaya: Jo chote bachon par rahm aur shafqat nahi karta, us par rahm nahi kiya jata.”

English: “He who does not show mercy and tenderness (to children) will not be shown mercy.”

Bachon Ko Deen & Husn-e-Adab Sikhana👶 Bachon Ki Tarbiyat
Jami at-Tirmidhi 1952 (Hasan)

“مَا نَحَلَ وَالِدٌ وَلَدًا مِنْ نَحْلٍ أَفْضَلَ مِنْ أَدَبٍ حَسَنٍ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Kisi baap ne apni aulaad ko achche adab aur naik tarbiyat se behtar koi tohfa nahi diya.”

English: “No father gives his child a better gift than teaching them good manners and moral character.”

Bachon Me Barabari & Be-Insaafi Se Bachna👶 Bachon Ki Tarbiyat
Sahih al-Bukhari 2587, Sahih Muslim 1623

“اتَّقُوا اللَّهَ وَاعْدِلُوا بَيْنَ أَوْلاَدِكُمْ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Allah se daro aur apni aulaad (bete aur beti) ke darmiyan hamesha insaaf aur barabari ka sulook karo.”

English: “Fear Allah and treat all your children with justice and fairness.”

Betiyon Ki Parwarish & Jannat Ki Basharat👶 Bachon Ki Tarbiyat
Sahih Muslim 2631

“مَنْ عَالَ جَارِيَتَيْنِ حَتَّى تَبْلُغَا، جَاءَ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ أَنَا وَهُوَ، وَضَمَّ أَصَابِعَهُ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Jisne do betiyon ki achchi parwarish aur tarbiyat ki yahan tak ke wo badi ho gayi, to Qayamat ke roz main aur wo is tarah sath honge — aur Aap (ﷺ) ne apni ungliyon ko mila kar dikhaya.”

English: “Whoever raises two daughters with love and care until they reach maturity, he and I will come on the Day of Resurrection like this — and he joined his fingers.”

Behtareen Nek Biwi Ki Khoobiyan⚖️ Huqooq
Sunan an-Nasa'i 3231 (Sahih)

“الَّتِي تَسُرُّهُ إِذَا نَظَرَ، وَتُطِيعُهُ إِذَا أَمَرَ، وَلاَ تُخَالِفُهُ فِي نَفْسِهَا وَلاَ مَالِهَا بِمَا يَكْرَهُ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Nabi (ﷺ) se pucha gaya: Sabse behtareen aurat kaun hai? Farmaya: Wo jise shauhar dekhe to khush ho jaye, jaaiz baat me uski itaat kare, aur shauhar ki ghair-maujoodgi me apni paarsaai aur shauhar ke maal ki hifazat kare.”

English: “The best wife is the one who brings joy to him when he looks at her, obeys him in goodness, and protects her virtue and his wealth.”

Shauhar Ki Mehnat Ka Shukr-Guzar Rehna⚖️ Huqooq
Sunan an-Nasa'i Al-Kubra 9086, Al-Mustadrak Al-Hakim (Sahih)

“لاَ يَنْظُرُ اللَّهُ إِلَى امْرَأَةٍ لاَ تَشْكُرُ لِزَوْجِهَا وَهِيَ لاَ تَسْتَغْنِي عَنْهُ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Allah Ta'ala aisi aurat par rehmat ki nazar nahi farmata jo apne shauhar ka shukr ada nahi karti, halanke wo uske sath rishte me rehti hai.”

English: “Allah will not look favorably upon a woman who does not show gratitude to her husband, while she is dependent upon him.”

Rishtedaron Se Husn-e-Sulook & Rizq Me Barkat🤝 Sila-Rahmi
Sahih al-Bukhari 2067, Sahih Muslim 2557

“مَنْ سَرَّهُ أَنْ يُبْسَطَ لَهُ فِي رِزْقِهِ، وَأَنْ يُنْسَأَ لَهُ فِي أَثَرِهِ، فَلْيَصِلْ رَحِمَهُ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Jo shakhs yeh chahta ho ke uski rozi (rizq) me barkat aur kushadgi ho, aur uski umr me barkat di jaye, to wo apne rishtedaron ke sath sila-rahmi (achcha sulook) kare.”

English: “Whoever wishes for his provision (Rizq) to be expanded and for his lifespan to be prolonged, let him maintain the ties of kinship (Silah Rahmi).”

Toote Rishte Jodna & Narmi Se Pehal Karna🤝 Sila-Rahmi
Sahih al-Bukhari 5991

“لَيْسَ الْوَاصِلُ بِالْمُكَافِئِ، وَلَكِنِ الْوَاصِلُ الَّذِي إِذَا قَطَعَتْ رَحِمُهُ وَصَلَهَا”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Barabari ka badla lene wala asal sila-rahmi karne wala nahi hai; balki asal sila-rahmi karne wala wo hai ke jab uske rishtedar usse rishta todein to wo unhe jode.”

English: “The one who truly maintains ties of kinship is not merely the one who reciprocates, but the one who joins them when family ties are cut off.”

Apno Ke Sath Khushdili & Sadqah Ka Sawab🤝 Sila-Rahmi
Jami at-Tirmidhi 1956 (Sahih)

“تَبَسُّمُكَ فِي وَجْهِ أَخِيكَ لَكَ صَدَقَةٌ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Apne musalman bhai, biwi, ya rishtedar ke samne muskura kar dekhna bhi tumhare liye Sadqah (ajar-o-sawab) hai.”

English: “Smiling in the face of your brother/family member is a charitable deed (Sadaqah) for you.”

Rishton Ki Hifazat & Qata-e-Taalluqi Se Bachao🤝 Sila-Rahmi
Sahih al-Bukhari 5984, Sahih Muslim 2556

“لاَ يَدْخُلُ الْجَنَّةَ قَاطِعُ رَحِمٍ”

Tarjuma (Urdu/Hindi): “Rishtedari aur apas ke rishton ko qata (todne) wala shakhs Jannat me dakhil nahi hoga.”

English: “No one who severs the ties of kinship will enter Paradise.”

Islamic Shariat Rules for Valid Nikah

1. Wali (Guardian) Ki Raza-Mandi

Sunnah ke mutabiq aurat ke Nikah me unke Wali (Walid, Dada, Bhai, ya Sharei Sarparast) ka hona aur unki ijazat shart hai taaki beti ki hifazat aur izzat barqarar rahe.

2. Ijab-o-Qubool (Offer & Acceptance)

Nikah dono taraf se (Ladka aur Ladki) aazaad marzi aur qubooliyat se hota hai. Kisi par bhi zabardasti ya pressure daalna Shariat me sakht mana hai.

3. Mahr (Dower) Ka Huqooq

Mahr aurat ka sharei aur shakhsi haq hai jo shauhar ko adaa karna farz hai. Shariat me aasan aur khushdili se ada kiya jane wala Mahr pasandeeda hai.

4. Do Adil Gawah (Two Witnesses)

Nikah khufiya (secret) nahi ho sakta. Kam az kam do deendaar aur samajhdaar musalman gawahon ki maujoodgi me aelaan ke sath Nikah anjaam paata hai.

5. Jahez (Dowry) aur Fizool-Kharchi ki Mumanat

Shariat-e-Islamiya me ladki walon par jahez (dowry) ka mutaliba karna ya unhe kisi tarah ka maali bojh daalna haraam aur sakht gunaah hai. Nikah ko sadgi se karna Sunnah-e-Nabawi hai.

6. Purdah aur Haya Ki Hifazat

Rishta dekhne ke dauran ladki ki tasveer (photo) aur shakhsi maaloomaat ka be-parda aam hona jaaiz nahi. Isi bina par Muslim Shaadi Point me Purdah Mode aur OTP verification lagaya gaya hai.

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